I know that he doesn't feel like S18 wants to see him and he sees it as my fault. However, he brought this on himself. I have encouraged S18 to maintain a relationship with H. However, H doesn't respect S18's feelings and S18 keeps getting hurt by him. It seems as if he does a lot of things for S21 but not for S18. He stayed until S21 graduated but has done little to help S18 since he left. S18 still does not have a drivers license. The only thing H was supposed to take care of. Hasn't ask anything about S18's graduation, senior pictures, or open house. Although I understand why he is upset, I have a little trouble feeling too much empathy for him. He has repeatedly chosen OW over his sons. As a mother is it hard not to get upset by this.

I am praying for guidance in this situation. I have to just leave it to God.

Last edited by ANewMe; 03/24/08 03:59 AM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.