Hi Tree! Thinking of you. Sounds like you are looking hot in your new outfits! I wont say anything more except that you've come a long way in a short space of time, and you should be proud of yourself.
Dear Tree's Wife. I don't know you, but it sounds like you are hurting and I'm really sorry about that. Tree really does want the best for you. He's been posting here trying to figure out a new way of having a relationship with you, and how to accept that at this stage in your relationship it appears you both want different things. Sometimes that is really hard.... I understand (and I think Tree understands too) that sometimes you've got to make hard decisions to be true to yourself, even if it hurts the people you least want to hurt.
I hope that you and Tree will both find happiness.