I hope all is better and dinner went (or is going) well. I don't think he's capable of compassion for you right now. Not really. It would require too much of him. If he's anything like my H....he gave so much for so long, he just can't do it any more. It doesn't matter that we didn't (or don't) see what they were trying to do. In their way they tried. I suppose that the best anyone of us can do. I don't know.
Give yourself credit for all you do. Now is the time to work on internal validation. It really does help.
I still vascilate with regards to how I fel about my H. I know it will get better. I'm hoping the more I work on myself the sooner that will be
