Tree:

Sorry to hear about this turn of events. Snooping on your posts and your going out is truly despicable, but you can't control it. You only control your reaction to it. What are you going to do? I wish I had some answers for you, but I don't. All I can offer is my sympathy and best wishes that you deal with these latest matters in a healthy way. She treats you badly, yet wants to know what you are up to. I suppose that is typical for MLC.