That is exactly what I am trying to do too -- give WW time and space. It sucks that BS have to do all the work while WW's just grieve and continue their selfish ways. It takes two to make a marriage! They aren't even trying!

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Ok DMB, I'll make a deal with ya. I won't blow my WW off yet if you won't.


Ok, you have a deal. But you are in a better sitch than me, so I am going to need some odds \:\) My WW is STILL in contact with her OM, despite telling me "it is over." Her withdrawal clock hasn't even started!