Thanks for checking in on me. I'm doing good. Aaaah...it's been a peaceful week. Amazing how much better I feel now that I decided to take control of my own life and grow a backbone.
I did talk to X-MIL last night and asked if XH went on one of his rampages after he got my letter. She said no....he didn't say much....just that I didn't want to be friends with him and that he guesses he overstepped his boundaries....YOU THINK!
Well, he obviously is still not thinking straight....maybe someday he'll get his head out of his @ss and see what's going on around him...for now, he's decided to live in his own little world .
On a happier note, we have two new potential bachelors in the picture. Why is it that they come two at a time in my world? Remember last time, we had Bach #1 and #2 at the same time....now we have Bach #3 and #4. Bach #3 is only 25...probably no potential but it's always good to meet new people. Bach #4 is 33 and definitely has potential...I hope we get to meet soon .
Bethie, you still heading to St. Louis for St. Patty's Day? The weather doesn't look like it's going to be too good . Rain and chilly...that's worse than the Mardi Gras weather.
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
All's been pretty peaceful. X seems to be following the no contact request.
I met bachelor #3 on Saturday night....didn't go so well. He introduced himself, but beyond that didn't appear to want to put forth any effort. The person that was trying to set us up said he was shy, so I thought I would make the next step, so I sent him a myspace friend request with message saying something along...it was nice to meet you.... He accepted my request, but did not send a response. I don't know what the deal is...maybe I'm just having bad luck, but I can tell you I hate all of this.
All my friends say that I'm such a sweet, beautiful, strong woman that any guy would be happy to get a chance with me...I guess I'm just feeling frustrated.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Hey girl. Don't sweat the shy guy. Who knows what's wrong with him. Have no fear, it'll get easier. I applaud you for getting out there, that's the hardest part.
Went and saw IC again yesterday. We are finally to the point that we are not spending the whole session talking about X and all the crazy things he does. Yesterday, for the first time, we touched a lot on me and dating. We are now 0 for 3 with the first three guys that I've been set up with....not good results. She said that she doesn't think that it's anything that I'm doing...it is more about them. I think that I was trying to take the blame, but I think she's right. I found out the reason that Bach #3 didn't have any interest in me was because I was too old...he was 25...I'm 28. I'm really trying to step out of my comfort zone and meet new people and at this point I think that is the best thing for me. I'm not holding myself up in my house....I'm trying to be more social...I'm putting myself out there.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
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. Rain and chilly...that's worse than the Mardi Gras weather.