Thanks for advice hope4us I did go on the kind of date and actually came to some conclusions on my own. First of all you are right, I am in a vulnerable place right now and although it feels like it is all over and I am ready to move on, I don't think I really am. I feel like I know what h felt when ow was giving him all the attention. Problem is, is that I am still married even if there is a separation and an impending divorce I am still married!! But what if this person who is suddenly interested in me is the next best thing in my life???if i close the door it may be a big missed opportunity?! Anyway it felt awkward and I felt really gaurded.I still want h back and have never looked at another man since I met h so it would probably be easy to be taken advantage of. This guy is a good guy and maybe best thing right now would be to tell him I would like to remain friends with him but nothing more. He asked me if h came back would I take him and I did say yes.
