A lot of good advice. Thanks to everybody for sharing.

I would have to say that reading is really key. Today I reread the first 56 pages of the DB book for probably the 20th time. It makes me realize that what I am feeling is normal. Normal is ok. Especially if you aren't the one the started the divorce process.

Me: 47
Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.

Divorce final 12/07/07
No Kids

It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.