SG, Please have more faith in us. We are rooting for each other's marriages, is that not obvious?
I DO have a LOT of faith in you. This is posted for newbies who are lost, who may stop in on someone else's thread and not see the whole thing.
As I posted somewhere else before.....only the person in the situation has all the details. We don't walk in their shoes. Also ... there are situations where the spouse has an addiction, or other behavior, that gets turned completely around. It happens all the time. On the other hand....it doesn't happen in every situation. We are just not able to make the call FOR them.
Things like getting a life, building their confidence go a long way (as most everyone on THIS forum knows) in helping them to make THEIR right decisions.
These are good questions to ask.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
