I can't believe it. H just emailed me that many people going through divorces have relationships!!! I emailed back:
Yes, after the divorce, but not 10 months before or whatever. We were and still are married and living together when you started your affair, most people wait until they are divorced or at least separated. I guess you have to tell yourself that it is normal though...It's not though esp. when both involved in the affair are married with kids! But I guess you have to rationalize your behavior or you would have guilt of course.
He emailed me back that 50% of married people have affairs and he was justified because he told me he wanted a divorce before he started his affair! Yes, he is truly a saint and wonderful husband for that!!! Karen
