So a quick update: since the initial phone calls from a few weeks ago, no contact with the XW. Considering how well those conversations went, how much we laughed and agreed with each other's points etc, I am thinking that she has withdrawn a bit. This is obviously hard for me to prove, since I don't really have any other data points to compare, but she has done it before. Also all classic signs from the WAS as mentioned in DR and DB. Oh well. A therapist suggested that I write a letter to her and ask her questions that have been plaguing me since this started, and then maybe even send it to her. I think I'll do that now. Or my taxes. Thanks to everyone who's read this and replied, or read this and thought about my situation.
