Don't call H. Let him contact you, even if he doesn't call today. When he does call, be pleasant on the phone and don't bring up R. It's very difficult to do but you must detach. Pursuing H will push him further away.
Good luck!!!


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz