I am so sick of H! He spent the morning with the kids and then the last couple hours here. He threw a tantrum b/c one of his movies was missing, and yelled at me and my D14 about that. Then he accused me of telling D8 that he lives with his girlfriend. Actually, he is the one that always talks about his girlfriend, spends all his time with her, and texting her so she drew her own conclusions, and I am not going to lie to her for him either. I actually say nothing when D8 has brought up Daddy's girlfriend or "new wife" as she has called her before...except to say that most daddies don't have girlfriends (as my C told me to tell her).
I sent him this email when he left b/c I was so upset: I would appreciate it if you would not come here & call me a liar in future & throw tantrums about your stuff. We may have lost a $10 movie--how much money have you spent on your girlfriend and hotels?? D8 draws her own conclusion about your girlfriend prob. b/c you used to spend all your free time with her or texting her. I don't talk about you other than to say what days you are coming. You are high if you think I care you are sc***ing your trashy girlfriend all the time!
He then came home and apologized to my son and I for yelling and aapologized for the argument. I don't even talk about him other than to tell D8 what days he will be here; it's ridiculous. Life without H is so peaceful & stress-free and then he has to come here and bring his MLC insanity or whatever it is!!! Karen