a)request another continuance (one was granted 2.5.08) or b)set a settlement date to conclude D filed by WAW.
WAW and I are not speaking as much as we did during the early stages of S. I am fairly confident there is OM in the picture and I have been keeping to myself-GAL and looking after my 17S.
We have not told the children that a D was filed (by WAW on 11.21.07), only that we are separated and working on the M. Many people familiar with my situation have pressured me to tell the children the truth-that W has filed. I feel like I need to ask WAW what she wants before I go to court and that our children need to know the truth. I suspect her involvement with OM is increasing as her communication with me and involvement with our S is declining.
This will definitely put pressure on her and force the issue. I am not even sure she knows about the upcoming court date. Does this violate DB tactics to not do anything that will move the D forward? I will need to know her wishes prior to going to court either way.