Being OW

[Hope4us]

I agree Michelle. And it goes both ways. WW never told OM about her STD. She created such a terrible image of me that OM and a young friend of WW both call me "animal" (you know the new friend that validates waywards while she distances herself from all her real friends). I used to see text msgs all the time where he would be really nasty to her, mostly because she was doing stuff with me, imagine that, her lover was mad that she was doing things with her husband and he would then be all sorry and crap!

I saw TM's where he was telling her he could make her happy forever, blah, blah, blah but he just couldn't divorce his wife until his son was out of H.S. So once I told his wife what was going on and he went running back to her, why didn't WW wake up? When she said she was going to divorce him, why didn't he jump at that so he could be with WW? Because he was using her and she f'in fell for it.

There was another time when I saw some TM's that he had told WW he was going to talk to his W about divorce, but he needed to do it in person. He told WW he was going home the next weekend to talk to her. That Sat WW sent him a text asking if he had talked to her yet because she wanted to know if she should file for divorce so they could be together. OM told WW that his wife and kids had gone out to dinner but he would talk to her the next day and let WW know how to proceed. Next day, he still didn't talk to her. I don't know how the rest of that conversation went because my exposure letter showed up a few days later, but after talking to OMW she told me he wasn't even home that weekend!

Another time I told WW that OM was trying to get back together with his wife and claimed that he and WW were no longer communicating. The exact quote was "We're not talking, I don't care what that bit*h says". And she still tried to get together with him one more time.

It's just stunning. Simply stunning. They lie to their spouses, lie to each other, lie to their kids and they're "soulmates". Give me a frickin break. Most of the time I'm not too mad at OM because, afterall, he's a man and a lot of men are pigs, but furious at WW because she fell for it. Maybe she's starting to figure it out and that's why she seems to be slowly responding to me (even though the last couple days have stunk).

Ok, Now I'm really done venting.