runswithscissors, the reason she says I can't have the kids is because she thinks I am to easy on them and that I can't take care of them myself. I feel the reason she won't let me have them is because then her life may change some and she wouldn't want that. She will tell you that I am the best father she could ever ask for but will not let them spend but every other weekend with me.
As far as talking to the kids about the sitch, we don't talk about it much to them at all, two weekends ago the kids brought it up to me that there mother doesn't want them at the house as she is always getting mad and crying. Now I know she loves them very much and this is not the case as I tried to tell the boys but they have this in there heads. They also stated the only reason you are not home with us is because momma doesn't want you there. The kids want to spend more time with me and they were upset when W told them they could only stay every other weekend.
