Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

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I wonder is she is still doing the "I'll be happy when...." thing. Ie, she is not happy now so it must be that she is renting a dump rather than owning a nice house.

To me all roads have to lead to OW going away. She is probably getting a lot of validation for her actions from OW and bad friend and that doesn't help. I have a feeling that this is what you are seeing now. That validation has been removed from your W so she is drifting back to what is right.

My golden is sitting watching me type with a dumb look on his face.