I'm trying to minimize it because the guy is large, old enough to be her father, not attractive, and basically a nice enough guy who has been part of the 'spiritual group' she hangs around with because he is basically lonely and hurt since his W dies last year. I would be hard pressed to think there is anything beyond that 'friend' thing because I've met the guy and he's incredibly dull. Seriously, we're talking OLD and big and dull. Even her 'God light' friend has difficulty dealing with him sometimes.
She came home early, instead of maybe going out for 'coffee or something' and that's about it. In MY mind I'd like to think of it as meaningless, she's so bored that this is the best she can do? An old guy who is a lonely friend on a Saturday night?
Instead I get people trying to tell me she's all over him, implying he's going to be the next 'Sugar Daddy', etc, etc..
How do you think that makes me feel? I have enough fears and anxieties as it is.
I went over to visit her Dad and Step Mom last night and they agreed with me when I mentioned this except they added that 'if she's bored why doesn't she find something to do with the kids instead of leaving them home?'
