ACJ, it is amazing how kids know the truth (most of the time)and have no problems with convictions. Your kids are loyal to the family as you are so I can relate to your D not wanting the OW there. I would be the same way if I were her. My father was not faithful to my mother and he was so self-centered he did not keep the affairs secret from me. Instead of me following in his footsteps, I felt it is critical to be faithful to your partner.

Your children are fortunate to have you as their mom.

mmf


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God