I have a picture of D that I was going to give to H.
I still might. But not for a few months at least.
You might peek at Trusting's thread on the whole idea of going dark/dim.... I expect H to be mad at me. I was always sensitive to his being mad at me. It is a 180 for me to not care.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D