Anyway, Brit I don't know if I answered your question. But I obviously have some major decisions to make with regards to my children and to my home. I can't make these decisions if I'm clouded by the "what might be's" of H's decisions.
It's certainly much more clear to me now. I think the last thing I really remember from your sitch was when you were very upset after he said it was over (again). You have obviously come a LONG way since then, which is evident from your latest posts.
Hopefully your H being thrown into an R with OW will make it burn out much quicker. My W is still back and forth with OM, even though there isn't any real relationship there at all.
