If you still want your husband back more than anything, don't go out on a date with anyone. What would happen if this new guy trips your trigger and then H wants to come back? Do you think it would be fair to the new guy who is interested in you if he started having feelings for you and your H came back? No offense intended at all because I know how it feels, but it's almost like the thinking affairees go through. And would you be able to make a rational judgement about this new person? You could find yourself in an affair so easily right now. All you'd need is this new person to pay attention to you and you'd be in bed with him quicker than you can blink.
I know what you're feeling. My WW and I still are living together but it's like we've been separated living in the same house for 7 months. I would KILL for a hug (5 months ago I tried to hold her hand and you'd have thought I had the plague). The other day I was at a sports bar and the barmaid just brushed my hand while grabbing my credit card and it about sent me through the roof so I know what being lonely is all about.
Don't get involved with anyone new until you've really moved on from your husband and have given yourself time to learn about you first.
Last edited by Hope4us; 03/23/0805:08 PM.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
