Yes I agree WTF. It seems that once you asked him he backed down. I wonder what would have happened if you said nothing about staying over. Its the persuit/withdrawal crap again.
My H is like that too. If I ask him to come over he won't but will drop by out of the blue when not invited.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
