Sleeper, I would just not give her the gift. Don't buy gifts!! You've GOT to back off. IMP is right; let her come to you.

I'm right where you are. I have my own life. I care less and less about what H is doing and when he comes over, I make myself scarce.

Your W's jealousy is indicative that she is not done w/you. You're her backup plan right now and if you cater to that, that's how she will treat you. You need to show her that you're going to live your own life.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D