H had made comments before like "I want calm in my remaining years." And, "I'm just a flaccid old man...." Or, "I want adventure...." H "Wants a red Mini-Cooper...."
I don't know if his sharing his latest drama with me is a good sign, or just more mind-f*cking. This is the first time since he left that he has offered any info at all to me as to what's happening in his life.
But, I think it's sick how I am so willing to take any crumb he gives me and try to read so much into it. I hate that part of DB and I see most of us here doing it at one time or another.
But, I think it's sick how I am so willing to take any crumb he gives me and try to read so much into it. I hate that part of DB and I see most of us here doing it at one time or another.
I'm like that too, and I wind up examining everything H says/does and trying to analyze it all!! I guess that is why we are supposed to work on detaching, which is hard for me!
But I also think our H's seem to keep reeling us in though so some of this isn't our fault. I mean like your H emails you like that to keep you involved in his life I think and my H moved out last week, but then he spent most of the week here with me and the kids since he "moved out". I think our H's just can't stand to let us completely go, just as much as we don't want to let them go maybe... Karen
And the plot thickens in H's drama....turns out these so-called life threatening gang-bangers are relatives of H's new GF. They were gate-crashers at D18's birthday party earlier this week.
I knew there was a reason that H finally reached out to me. It's because he has already started some sh!t in his new family. That didn't take long. LMMFAO!!!!!!
Kimmie, I saw that you posted a couple times this week on other threads. Glad to see you're still lurking. How are you? How's the job? How are your classes going?