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I think my H is too, Karen.

H had made comments before like "I want calm in my remaining years." And, "I'm just a flaccid old man...." Or, "I want adventure...." H "Wants a red Mini-Cooper...."

I don't know if his sharing his latest drama with me is a good sign, or just more mind-f*cking. This is the first time since he left that he has offered any info at all to me as to what's happening in his life.

But, I think it's sick how I am so willing to take any crumb he gives me and try to read so much into it. I hate that part of DB and I see most of us here doing it at one time or another.

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Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee
But, I think it's sick how I am so willing to take any crumb he gives me and try to read so much into it. I hate that part of DB and I see most of us here doing it at one time or another.



I'm like that too, and I wind up examining everything H says/does and trying to analyze it all!! I guess that is why we are supposed to work on detaching, which is hard for me!

But I also think our H's seem to keep reeling us in though so some of this isn't our fault. I mean like your H emails you like that to keep you involved in his life I think and my H moved out last week, but then he spent most of the week here with me and the kids since he "moved out". I think our H's just can't stand to let us completely go, just as much as we don't want to let them go maybe... Karen


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Exactly, Karen.

And the plot thickens in H's drama....turns out these so-called life threatening gang-bangers are relatives of H's new GF. They were gate-crashers at D18's birthday party earlier this week.

I knew there was a reason that H finally reached out to me. It's because he has already started some sh!t in his new family. That didn't take long. LMMFAO!!!!!!

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Kimmie,
(((HUGS)))
I do believe he's probably finding out the grass is not greener! I bet he's really thinking about things now.

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Thanks Joie, I think so too.

Not reading much into it, but still, it didn't take long. H had just barely moved all his stuff into her house. Heh....

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Kimmie,
I saw that you posted a couple times this week on other threads. Glad to see you're still lurking. How are you? How's the job? How are your classes going?

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Me too!!! I was happy to see your thread pop up today! \:\) How are you doing Kimmie??? Karen


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