Fish I normally do not post to you but here Two Wrongs do not make a right. This is from someone who has double wronged many times and never turned right as a result.
Do a motive check. Why are you doing this? You are setting yourself up for future mistakes/dissapointment. I know it's a blow most of us have been smacked like this on this bb and well know the pain.
If you want lasting success you work on becoming the best fish whom sharks fear to tread and become the wise kindest fish whom guppies seek advice. That takes a lot of time and pain.
But jumping in a relationship to avoid the hard work of 'What did I do wrong, where do I need to go, and how am I going to get there' is doomed to repeat and a month, 6 months, 6 years you will be back floundering in the back of the same boat you are now. Sorry you are there.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
