A LBS's take on role reversals.

[Hope4us]

Sometimes I think the problem is we detach so far, learn to accept the loss of our marriages, GAL, start to love our lives "even without the spouse" and then when they come back it's not so easy to "reattach." We think, "Hey, maybe life would be better without this person who caused us so much pain...."

This has been my thought exactly the last few weeks. It's like, to get what we want, either our spouse or our lives back, we have to to something (detach) that may make it impossible to take them back once they do.