It is such a huge decision to get the D when you are the one left behind. My h walked out and moved in with ow, it has been 6 months and he has told me to give up on him he does not want to and will never come home. He has asked for D but has done nothing about it. I want him back but he is dead set against ever trying or coming home, the only way to get on with my life is to file for D as he never will and he is happy to continue like this. We have a 14 month old D.
