fish----I hope you decide against going to dinner with one of her best friends....I totally understand your feelings..and understand she dseserves it......however u will be just like her if you go down this path..anyone can hookup with someone new to feel better.....i think this is a big mistake...it will get her back for all she has done to you....yep it will...but after you go down this path....you will look back with regret....if if doenst work out with u and your wife you would know u did everything...including letting yourself heal properly before moving on to someone else..moving on does not mean with someone else....its all just sad that is true...spare yourslef this drama and start to heal...alone....
