My story, please help

[GavinO]

Spoke with W this morning, we were going to have breakfast but she didn't feel like it, we chatted about the wedding, she enjoyed it but found it really hard and felt it was a bit difficult as lots of our friends were there and they are all couples. She text last night when they were leaving and the text had a x on the end!, the first one in a month! (sad getting excited that your wife puts a x at the end of a text)

She found the wedding hard and said that our first dance song came on a few songs after the first dance and she found it really hard.

This morning she sat on the sofa opposite but came and sat right next to me (touching all one side) to show me the pictures she had taken on her camera, she then went to sit back on the other sofa, we chatted a bit more. One odd thing she said was that she shaved her legs but didn't need to as she was wearing a long dress and it was not line I (me, Gavin) was there or she had a partner. W also brought back a small easter egg for me from one of the favors that they have at weddings. She is staying at her parents this eve and seeing her sister who has an infection in her spine

She mentioned that she will move to her parents next week (she only has one day off so not sure how that ill work, though it can be done if she just moves her stuff like clothes and toiletries)

So far we have spent some nice time together over the last few days, she has also stated that the only good thing out of this is that she has lost some weight (WTF YOU DOING THIS THEN IF YOU HAVE ADMITTED THAT THERE ARE NO GOOD THINGS ABOUT IT!!!!)

Mum and my sister think that there are loads of positives and that she is slowly making her way back to me but can't do it all in one go?

I am cautiously optimistic, she 'seems' to have slowed somewhat and we are talking a lot more, D gets brought up only a bit and with less vehemence.

This is hard, I know my wife and it is not what she 'truly' wants even though it seems to be what she 'really' wants.

Any WAWs able to put a perspective on this? Is she slowly coming back to me or is she not? things do seem more positive but I don't want to get hopeful and then shafted!

Any advice appreciated.

Cheers

Gavin