MMB, At this point maybe you should just do what you feel is right for you. If you feel like being there then stay, if not go. I have read your posts and am thinking you should maybe be a little self protective because he has raised a custody issue. He may be friendly and communicative , which is great, but just be careful about giving too much info.If you end up in a custody battle it can get ugly very fast. Make sure his words match his actions.