My H has really been working on building my trust. And I am proud to say I have not bringing up R issues.
However today I discovered H and OW have been in contact thru email and text messages on phone. When I first discovered their e/a we both agreed that if they were to continue working together that it could only be professional basis or she would quit her job. Well they broke the promise. Do I demand her to go?
And how I am to believe that H wants to work on M and regain trust when he continues to lie. Do I confront him( help he will be home in 1hr 1/2)? If I don't- I'm not sure how long I can hold together emotionally, without him realizing something is wrong.
one good thing I guess, I didn't put the kids in the car and go somewhere else like I felt like doing.
Suprisingly I am not a crying mess. I just feel like a battered women, afraid that sometime soon I will hear him say "I don't feel anything for you and M won't work."