I need to take that same attitude. I quickly read some of your thread. Sounds like I should take some lessons from you.

What I do realize I MUST do is get this damn life without him. Why is GAL so tough for some of us I wonder? I feel however that there will be some good coming in the near future. Hopefully the house will sell quickly when we list it next month...in today's market though who knows. Selling this alone will be a HUGE relief financially for H and I hope that will help him find some happiness again in his life. He professes to be so blindly happy now that he is gone but I know it is all an act. Even if he is sleeping with someone else life isn't great being away from home and the kids and even me although he professes he doesn't feel IT for me anymore.

I will sit back and let him see some good changes in me and the positive steps I am taking to help our situation progress smoothly regardless of how it ends. He will FALL in love with me all over again I know...heehee.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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