realizing h may be an alchoholic and as much as I don't like to put labels on people I think he fits the profile very well. Having said that...I don't think it'll make a rats a$$ what I say or do he's not going to change and this is NOT ok for my children.
Oldtimer...it's taken me a long time but I think we are going to see real movement in LL's world very soon!