Well, seems like to me that another opportunity was given to you and you handled it quite well. You were able to say how you felt and it seems to me that H heard what you said. He may not have responded like you would want him to but I think it gave him some more to think about.
TOH, I started a new thread on the Prayer Circle called is the glass have full or half empty...or something to that effect. You have a lot going for you. Even your H said some good things about the farm and that you don't have to leave. Just keep things going as they are and try to be friendly. You don't have to be his friend right now if you don't want to but just try to be friendly.
