I don't know. I have been talking to my H every day also in person or email. I haven't read any rules about how much is too much, but I have read here others suggest you should try not to be available 100% of the time. Like don't return every email or answer every phone call like you are waiting for their call or something. Plus if you are together you should try to be the first one to leave which is one I am working on doing more. I think at least in my case my H has taken me for granted for the past few years (or longer?) and it is good for him to realize that maybe he shouldn't! \:\) Karen

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