Hey Steve,

Not much experience to input here as I am not even D'd yet. But I do find myself having feelings for someone- Butterflies, feeling shaky, the whole 9 yards but as far as being in a R with someone that I could trust I think it could take awhile as you know my story. I am only 32 and I do hope to find a man out there that will love me and my 5 kids but that will be quite a challenge I'm sure. But I think we reach a point to where the "fantasy" love while nice is not so much an important factor as it once was- we realized that we can love someone and it be true without having all those so called high school feelings. Those are great but well we all know that that does disappear with time anyway. My advice- what little I have to offer would be to listen to what your gut is telling you. It is usually right.

Love,Lisa


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12