I am sorry about your mom as well. I hope everything is fine. Snuggles sound awesome right now. I miss that more than anything. Even sex. I miss the quiet time holding each other and talking about the little things.
Sorry to hear you mom is not feeling well. My prayers are with you. Thanks for your concern about my mom. Have to get thru monday's appointment to see what the next move will be.
I love it when my mom said to me, you have enough on your plate I did not want to put more stress on you with my problems. I told her did you not get the memo that when it comes to health issues I am in charge not you. LOL made her laugh at least. SHe claims to have never gotten the memo, I told her to check her in box on the computer. You gotta love them, they want to protect you, and not upset us more, but they don't realize they make it worse.
Oh, I so miss the snuggles, and that place in the crook of h's arm where i would put my head at night. I so miss it. Miss the sex too. Its coming close to a year, in that department. UGH. I miss the physical contact of h just holding me or even holding my hand. Would do anything to get any of it back.
Well glad to hear H loved her bike, hope you got lots of photos! Enjoy your easter
((hugs)) bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
W2G, Sounds like you've had a couple of great days with H. I know the feeling of lying in bed with H although I didn't get any snuggles. I'm jealous!!! Remember keep the expectations low as he may pull away (I have to remember this myself).
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. You certainly don't need any more on your plate. My thoughts are with you.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
The immediate departure of H after the snuggling could just be the classic "men are rubber bands" behavior from Mars and Venus... Apparently a lot of guys have an uncontrollable urge to distance themselves after intimacy, even if they are totally solid with their relationship. So... I wouldn't worry about it! But--congratulations! you have come SO OOOOOOO far!!!! Can you see the progress???? I hope some day to emulate you !!!
I am sorry to hear about your Mom--you are in my prayers. Hopefully everything will have a very simple and harmless explanation!
have a beautiful easter with your daughter!! (((HUGS))) T
What a gentle time that must have been, held in each other's arms. Everyone talks about the lack of sleep we all seem to experience.. and poof, your H drifts off with the comfort of your presence. All I can say is reading about your snuggle was good for me, too!
I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers for your mom. Tell her I know she's one heck of a woman to have a daughter like you!
Sorry about your mom, ((W2G)). I hope its nothing serious.
Have a happy Easter!
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
I was just about to post when I saw you checking in on me. You're the best!!!
So quick update. Easter was nice although D2 and I didn't get to have an Easter meal. We went to my sisters and spent Saturday afternoon and night.. We stayed for lunch and a little socializing on Sunday (D2 was able to participate in the Easter Egg Hunt) and then left my sister's for our 2 hour ride home at about 3pm. They weren't going to eat until 4 or 5 pm.. and I didn't want to be stuck driving in the dark to get home. Rec'd an email from H saying "happy easter!!!!!". Really didn't understand all the exclaimation marks but oh well. My response was "thanks u 2." He then sent another asking how my easter was going and then another stating he's on his way to his aunt's place for easter dinner. My response was "have a good time". I didn't even acknowledge the question about how my easter was. He then tried calling my cell phone.. which I didn't answer.. and I he left a voicemail on the home phone too (saying to call him on his cell if I wanted to). I didn't want to. He seemed anxious to speak. He called the house at D2's bed time.. just past her bed time actually but I hadn't put her to bed yet so they had a chance for a quick chat. He was just about to get gasoline so I said "I'll let you go, I've got to put D2 to bed anyway".. and he said "oh okay, I'll get gas and then call back in a few minutes so that you have the chance to get her to bed."
When he called back he mentioned that his sister and her kids didn't come to his Aunt's for Easter and that his Dad was in the hospital for some tests since he fainted so he and H's Mom weren't there either. He said he missed us. My response was that I was sorry to hear about his Dad and to please keep me posted on how he's doing.
H is coming over tonight. He's bringing leftovers from his Aunt's Easter dinner and an Easter gift from his Aunt (D2's godmother) for D2.
As for how I did this Easter. Overall I think I did good. I had one moment of "near" tears.. when my niece gave me an extra thank you kiss and thank you hug to pass on to H since he wasn't able to be there in person. Now if only I could stop checking my cell phone all the time to see if I missed any texts or calls.. that would be nice!
5 more days of work my friends.
I'll check in on all of the rest of you throughout the day. Hope you're doing well and had a great Easter/Long Weekend!
