I was so afraid to tell my ex my feelings. I thought it would push him away. It actually helped I think. As time goes on, they listen just a little more. It sinks in just a little bit more. They will not admit this, but it does.
Peace I think you did great.
You need to get some of those feelings out.
He needs to take responsibility and ownership of what he has done.
Only apologize if you did something wrong, but don't apologize for how you feel.
They all say the spouse was controlling - very classic.
We all are controlling at some times.
His choices were wrong.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
