Can you forgive someone, yet not fully trust them?
I have read some awsome posts on forgiveness- is for oneself and not for your s. And I would love to say I have forgiven my h for the e/a. I would love to say I forgive my h for the lies. I think I can see that before true healing begins I need to forgive. It was a relief to read that I can forgive an action but that doesn't mean I forget the action. But can I forgive and still be afraid that he will hurt me again? Can I forgive yet still wonder if there are any more lies?
We have been m 10y with 3 kids. I discovered 2m ago that h was unhappy... said he wasn't in love with me...I am unattractive. And I hurt and cried. Then 1m ago I discover h having e/a. I was crushed. Started journaling, working on myself and yes some things are better. But I am stuck on this forgiveness and trust issue.
