Thanks for all the support. I think a 180 is the best in this situation. I have done everything she has asked since the separation and seen no change. Just "Thanks Zuma" as if we are friends and not husband and wife anymore. I fixed the equipment because she seemed so frustrated about it and she still will have to acknowledge my effort...but mowing the lawn would be viewed by her as doing to try and ease my back into the house. Tomorrow is Easter and I have to go to church without the kids because they will not be back till late or even Monday...I teach my 10 year olds Sunday School class and I will be teaching the class to her friends and she will not even be there....Great. I am determine to move on from this point and be positive...I will be leaving on my own trip on this Thursday through Sunday to Atlantic City so I will only have contact with the wife for three days when I take care of the kids after school. My girls are so beautiful and we are so blessed as a family...I can't believe she will actually throw everything away. I believe this is a mid-life thing with her but she is blind and can't see it. I've been a great husband to her and have also been there for her..........Your responses have been great please keep them coming. They keep me going and it's nice to have a sounding board from the outside world. It keeps me going.
