Actually with her getting pregnant again it will make OW/wife neck and neck with the children.. ahah
We will each have two of his children.

No I don't expect it will ;), especially not if I have you guys to give me that little extra guidance I was lacking.

Yes, it was Kiya (the "baby") she had kidney problems, but in October we had our last visit with the specialist, THANK GOD!
She got a clean bill of health, both kidneys are up and functioning!
She is under the weather right now though, throwing up, coughing, and feverish... finally down for a least a few hours of rest.


The biggest part of this that I have a problem with is this:

I do NOT want to have to pay for the D, I just don't feel I should have to pay the price for my H's foolishness.
He's too lazy and quite frankly likes playing the situation the way it is.

I know I have to do what needs done, I just am too cheap.
I am unsure how to proceed there, I know you "can't" give me advice on how to divorce him... but any pointers you can slip by would be nice!