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stella_k #1394894 03/19/08 06:32 PM
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(((Stella))) what great baby steps. Yes I think you should wait to reply. Keep him guessing.

Is it a holiday on Friday there? I guess not right? Tomorrow and Friday are here in Venezuela (big Catholic population). Everyone is back to work/school on Monday coming.

Point being let him think your away for the weekend or something like that.

He could be happy for YOU because you got the Summer course you wanted. Don't go "mind reading" ok? Just enjoy what is.

Jen


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JenInVen #1394897 03/19/08 06:33 PM
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PS what kind of wine should I bring for our rug party \:D


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JenInVen #1394938 03/19/08 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted By: JenInVen
PS what kind of wine should I bring for our rug party \:D


Oh, any, Jen . You know where I am. Wine is so expensive here, you wouldn't believe it! I envy you. Wine must be great and plenty of it!

With regards to the summer - I don't want summer course. I wanna go hoooome (Donkey voice). But I figured it would be quite a 180 for me, so I' m doing it.

No, we don't have Friday off. But I DO have plans for Easter! I have been invited to dinner and H knows about it. We still have one joint e-mail account . From most interesting people too \:\)


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stella_k #1394948 03/19/08 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted By: stella_k
Originally Posted By: JenInVen
PS what kind of wine should I bring for our rug party \:D


From most interesting people too \:\)


SMART GIRL!!!

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stella_k #1394999 03/19/08 07:59 PM
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Stella,
It's great to hear that your H is initiating more positive contact. I'm very happy for you!!!!
I agree, wait a day to respond to the email.

(((((((Stella))))))


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addie #1395021 03/19/08 08:11 PM
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thank you, Kalni, Addie!

from now on I'm trying not to have my hopes up but stay positive at the same time.


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stella_k #1395779 03/20/08 06:23 PM
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Hi Stella,

I'm happy you've seen some positives lately.. you deserve it and it helps to keep focused and strong on fighting for your marriage! I hope you're having a good day today!!!

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W2G #1397800 03/23/08 01:03 AM
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Stellaaaaaaa any news from your end of the world?


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JenInVen #1397830 03/23/08 02:09 AM
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Oh, no... Nothing...

H didn't call, nor write.

My social life, however, has become busier \:\)

I will post tomorrow, it's quite late here.

Happy Easter everyone!


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D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
stella_k #1397837 03/23/08 02:17 AM
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zzz sweet dreams


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