I wonder if a divorce worries him because of additional obligations it will put on him? I think you are right, you let the cart get ahead of the horse this last time. I expect that won't happen again.
Also, I think there may be a clue, in that he has more kids with the OW than with his wife. There must be some meaning to that!
Do I remember you being concerned with the health of one of your girls? I am guessing it must have worked out ok! And I am so glad to hear that you are working, and the bills are paid. So many things that were a problem before are going well now! I am proud of you!
