do you realy want her to " go sow her oats" come on BT your getting frustrated my friend and i realise that. She mabey the childish one but thats why your here and shes not. if you get a new life one of you will move out so no matter what it seems the course of action for now at least is one of you moving. you are the one fight ing for the marrage so take the hight ground my friend and make the changes needed. she wont ot if she does it will be to the extreem. I know its childish but it is what it is for now. mabey after a few weeks days months she will have taken the time to heal and see the changes in you.
right noe she is to close to you so any chage you do make will be overshadowed by her preconseved notions. the ball is in your court mow. you dont want to loose her in thr long run so makw changes in the short time that my be painfull , or they may pauy off. also if God forbid it does not help then you will be in a better position to have a fresh start.
