Just so I remember, without looking back, there was some violence, or at least the threat of it, wasn't there?
Yes that's why he is on probation right now. We got into a fight because OW called my house and I wouldn't let her speak to him, as I recall now I think that money was invovled in the fight as well... and well in the end I ended up with a black eye.
This has played a HUGE HUGE HUGE part in my moving up and over process. I had to realize that YES when other people said, "Oh you deserve better" they WERE RIGHT! No one deserves the pain caused by that one act. My children do not deserve being put in a position where one parent is put in danger by another.
WE deserve better!
Now there would be steps that could be taken, none of which he has taken (should've been a red flag there this last time, but I thought maybe we could work towards them, anyway..) He could take anger management, he could get with a counselor, etc etc etc.
All of that aside.
I have realized that I have a life, and I am going to live it with or without my poor lost husband, he has made this mess he will be the one to clean it up and fix his life.
