Hey Jeff, just came over to check on you as I haven't seen or heard much from you lately.

You have the funk I see...hmmmmmmmmm do you think you deserve to be down some? With you in the past, it seems like you are very tough on yourself when you get down. Like you don't feel like you have the right to be upset and hurt and angry. Why is that?

All I am saying my friend is that we are human. We just seem to forget that when we have times like this. We have so little empathy for ourselves it is amazing. Instead of understanding where we are and going easy on ourselves, we condemn ourselves for feeling bad.

You have every right to be hurt, angry, lonely, etc... jeff, but you also have every right to feel those emotions without feeling like your life is shitt. Your life is still good, you still have your kids, you do still have a ex wife who does need your help to raise those kids, and you do still have a house that all be it is in slight disarray right now, is still very special to you.

Keep your chin up Jeff, your life is going to be good again, and you know it.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09