I am really looking forward to it but it is hard to picture if H and I are still together how he is going to handle it. He has never ever told me I can't do anything but I do very little. As you can tell from my previous posts he does have a social life, and often comes home quite late.
I agree with Puppy on this one, you are worry about your H too much still dear. Work on detaching a little more, which I know seems impossible you want to hold on for dear life in fear that if you give an inch they'll take a mile...