It sounds like you have done a lot of growing up, and your H is still the same little boy he was when you were first here! Is this still with the same OW? Yes, same OW Not that it really matters. Is he still driving a truck, and never at any known spot? No he's living downstate PA, he is working in a restaurant now and he has said he was living with his Grandma, but aparently he is living with the OW...soooo...