By the way, over here the first person to post to you gets a drink of choice from you..........
There are a great group of folks over here, many of whom started when we did in newcomers. You will find swashy, myself, tyson, Julie, and many others over here now.
The advice over here is great, and it is more directed at coping with the divorce and how to handle all of the emotions involved.
You have done great my friend, I have followed along with you over in piecing and I can tell you that from what I read, you did everything you could to make it work. You should be very proud of yourself for what you have accomplished. I have told you before, it is most important to save yourself than it is to save your marriage, if the marriage comes back, it should be icing, not the cake.